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Friday 6 November 2015
I Considered Aborting Christiano Ronaldo - "Mum"
The best footballer in the world and the richest footballer in the world, Cristiano Ronaldo might not have been born if…
His mother has admitted she actually considered having an abortion when she was pregnant with him.
The revelation was disclosed in the new documentary film, Ronaldo, which covers the star’s rise from humble beginnings to the summit of world football.
Ronaldo’s mum, Maria Dolores dos Santos Aveiro, revealed in the film, explaining how she thought about having a termination when she found out she was expecting the world’s best football player.
In the film, Maria says:
“He was a child I wanted to abort. We laugh about it now and he says ‘now I am helping you all’.”
Tuesday 3 November 2015
11 kinky S*X ideas for Freaky Fun (Married couples only)
This article is solely for the married. s*x is worth waiting for if you are unmarried.
Use these 11 kinky s*x ideas to spice things up and have freaky s*x with your partner.
Spicing up your s*x life doesn’t take as much effort as you might think. And not only is it surprisingly easy, it can be a barrel-load of fun, too. Here’s a few tips to get you going:
1. Initiation.
You know that feeling when a guy you like wants you really, really bad? He may be trying hard to win you over, checking you out constantly and doing everything possible to be around you. It feels wonderful. The interesting thing is that guys feel exactly the same way when a girl they like is trying to win them over.
So why not use this to your advantage when getting s*xual with your man? Why not show him how much you want him physically. Now this might not be the kinkiest s*x idea that you’ve ever heard, but let me tell you this, it’s incredibly powerful. Here are a few simple ways that you can initiate things physically with your man.
2. Grab him & kiss him.
But do it when he’s least expecting it. Giving your man a kiss goodbye every morning when he’s leaving the house gets boring very, very quickly. A much more powerful way to kiss him is to do it when he’s not expecting it and without explanation. Then just go back to what you were doing previously. This change of pace for your man is incredibly exhilarating and will keep him constantly wondering when it’s going to happen next. So simple, yet very powerful. Just remember to use this idea sparingly.
3. Learn the right oral s*x skills.
Without a doubt, the best bang for your buck (literally!) when it comes to discovering the best kinky s*x ideas to use on your man is learning how to give him a great blowjob. It’s surprisingly easy to give your man awesome oral s*x with the right instructions.
4. Initiate s*x outside the bedroom.
I actually hope you’re already doing this kinky s*x idea. The next time both you and your man are alone, maybe sitting on the sofa or going for a walk somewhere private (or any place where you won’t be disturbed), try initiating s*x with him. You might be wondering what you should do? It’s pretty simple. Start by kissing him, then simply get a little more physical to the point where your hands are down his pants.
5. There is so much more down there.
Often people think giving your man oral s*x requires concentrating only on his man-hood. The fact is that there’s so much more you can do to give him even more pleasure like his balls, perineum and even his anus.
6. Don’t be afraid to use your hands.
This may be the least kinky s*x idea I give you today but sadly many girls make the mistake of not using their hands when going down on their man. It’s not cheating and it can give your mouth a much-needed rest.
7. Try the whirlpool technique.
Moving your head up and down when giving head is going to get boring pretty quickly for both of you. A simple way to change things up is to use the whirlpool technique. Instead of moving your head up and down, twirl your tongue over the top of his man-hood in a circular motion. Why this works so well is because the tip of your man’s man-hood is by far the most sensitive part of it.
8. A little BDSM never hurt anyone, did it?
Ever since 50 Shades Of Grey hit the bookshelves, dominance and submission has become one of those phrases on everyone’s lips when they’re searching for kinky s*x ideas to spice things up. You may have tried it before or you may be eager to try it. You may have even already decided whether you want to be a dominant or submissive in any potential BDSM scenarios with your partner.
But before you go out and spend a small fortune on expensive BDSM gear and equipment, why not start small to gauge your man’s reaction and find out what aspects of it he enjoys the most and finds the most kinky? Here are a few super simple ideas to try out with your man:
9. Blindfold him.
The next time you and your man are in bed, try putting a blindfold on him before going down on him or even for the entire s*x session. Blindfolds are easy to find, even most airlines give them out for free! Or if you like you can make one yourself. The sensory deprivation from a blindfold can help to heighten the other senses. A way to further the feelings of sensory deprivation is to use earplugs as well.
10. Pi/tie him down.
A great way to take things a little further is to get on top of your man and pin him down by his arms. Most likely he will actually be stronger than you…so one way to prevent him from overpowering you is to tie his arms to the bed. This is incredibly kinky and puts you firmly in control.
11. Make him be your slave for the day.
Becoming your man’s slave for the day is much kinkier than any of the previous ones and almost definitely one that he will like a lot! The important thing here is to make sure you and your man agree to some ground rules before starting, so that you both know the “safe” word to use if things get out of hand and he knows not to take things too far.
How you should never React when your Spouse "Cheates"
Finding out that your spouse has been cheating on you is one of the hardest things to experience. You find yourself flooded with all kinds of questions you’ve never even had to think about before, such as “What did I do wrong?”, “Am I at risk for an STD?” and “Does this mean we should divorce?”
Not only do you feel shocked, but you also feel enraged that your spouse could do something like this to you. After all, even if the marriage wasn’t going great, cheating was not necessary. He or she could have talked to you. But now that an affair has happened, there are decisions that need to be made. These decisions could be life altering, and affect more than just you and your spouse – they can affect your children and those close to you as well.
So as you’re deciding what to do, here are a few tips to help you. Specifically, here are a few tips of what NOT to do.
Don’t get revenge
Lots of spouses who’ve been cheated on want some kind of revenge. After all, it’s not fair what your spouse did to you. But even though you think he or she needs to feel the same kind of pain you feel, getting revenge only makes things worse. And definitely don’t try to contact the person they’ve been cheating with to tell them what scum they are. And most importantly, don’t try to get revenge through your kids by telling them what your spouse did. Revenge only complicates matters and creates more problems that need to be cleaned up and healed later.
Don’t make any big life decisions
Once you find out that your spouse is having an affair, you can’t help but begin thinking about how everything is going to end. You wonder things like, “Will my partner end the affair?”, “Will we divorce?” and “Will my children be scarred by this?” And even though your partner’s affair is a life-altering matter, it doesn’t mean you need to make life-altering decisions – at least not right away.
Making life-altering decisions right after an affair usually results in bad decisions being made. There’s too much going on emotionally and mentally for you to make a good decision right now. You need to make decisions, but limit them to short-term decisions – things like whether you should still go on your summer vacation or not. Take some time and let the dust settle. After a while, when you feel you’re in a calmer place and your head is clearer, then you can begin making the bigger decisions that need to be made – like whether to divorce.
Don’t tell everyone
You will want to reach out to others for support, which is good. In fact, reaching out for help can help you as you are working through this difficult time. But show good judgment in who you choose to tell. Telling your parents (who may already dislike your spouse) might make for even more awkward holidays together. And telling your spouse’s boss could get them fired (if the person they were cheating with also works with him or her, for example). So reach out for help if you need, but make sure you think through who you’re reaching out to.
Don’t forgive right away
Another common response when you find out your spouse is cheating is to quickly move past it so you can get back to having a happy relationship. So you quickly forgive in order to get back to being happy again. But forgiving too quickly is a band-aid cure for a more serious problem. It’s necessary to talk through the tough stuff in order to address the problems in the relationship and to create real healing. You need to talk with each other and dig deep into the problems in order to create a new relationship that is healed from the affair.
The first few days and weeks after the discovery of an affair are critically important. The way you respond can help heal or further harm the relationship. There’s already going to be plenty that needs to be healed as a result of the affair. You don’t want to create even more that needs to be healed as a result of how you reacted. Being aware of these items can help the healing process.
Ladies!, you can give a man everything, but NOT THIS FIVE THINGS
Sorry.
Trying to give a man any of the below qualities is like trying to make a Chinese person black, or trying to get a 75-year-old person who’s right-handed to become left-handed overnight. These changes need to come from within the person and not from you, girl.
You can pray, hope and believe for change, but you cannot do it. Here’s the top five things you absolutely cannot get a man to change.
1. You cannot give a man self-esteem or confidence.
2. You cannot give a man ambition or drive.
3. You cannot teach a man how to love himself.
4. You cannot help a man get over his childhood wounds.
5. You cannot teach a man how to be a man.
Omotola Jolade Ekehind and Husband at Lolo1's Event last night
The couple were at OAP Lolo 1’s Oga Madam Live comedy event at Muson Centre, Lagos last night.
Source: LIB
Majek Fashek pictured inside Rolls Royce in UK
It’s good to see that veteran reggae star, Majek Fashek has completed his rehabilitation.
Majek Fashek has definitely gotten back on his feet and showing signs of improvement.
The “Send Down the Rain” hit maker was pictured posing for photo inside a luxurious Rolls Royce in Manchester, United Kingdom.
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Photos, Video, Woman strips Unclad in Restaurant, Smears self with Ketchup
Angelic Isabella Valle was dining at a fast food restaurant when she decided to remove her clothes and dance. Her crazy stunt immediately drew the attention of male visitors who filmed it on their mobile phones and later posted online.
The video that was posted to World Star Hip Hop shows a young woman simulating a s*x act with a chair’s leg, then climbing onto a table and spreading her legs. She is seen smiling and dancing unclad, while a mob of excited men are pouring ketchup and water on her unclad body.
At least one man was seen touching her exposed private parts. According to police reports, she also turned over tables and chairs, damaging a property worth $420. At the moment police officers arrived Ms Valle fled the scene but was arrested days after the incident.
In a video on her Instagram account she said: “Ya’ll just mad ’cause you weren’t there. That s–t was fun now that I remember it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, arrest me, it was fun. Take me to jail. It was fun. And everybody looked like they were having fun too so yeah.”
Watch video:
The “ketchup girl ” was charged with incite to riot, indecent exposure, lewd and lascivious behavior and disorderly conduct. In court Ms Valle’s father said she has a history of mental issues. Police are still investigating the incident and looking for a man who touched her in the video.
10 things Guys find unattractive about women.
The answer is yes. Most men can tell when a woman is trying too hard and not pulling something off. Here are 10 things they hate most:
1. Extreme hairstyles
A woman with hair full of volumizing product and variously placed bobby pins walks into the room. You think she will attract the attention of all the men at the party. Will it attract attention? Yes, but I doubt if any man wants to get near that rat’s nest for any other reason than to see what is holding all of it up. Most men prefer long, loose, soft and silky hair, not sticky hairspray and hard gels.
2. Masked faces
Foundation is used to hide imperfections, fine lines and blemishes. However, it should be applied as a thin, even layer, and in a shade that blends right in to your skin. Overuse can make it look like you came out with a layer of clay on your face. When applied correctly, no one should be able to tell that you are hiding imperfections on your face. Remember, less is always more.
3. Sticky eyelashes
You know that effect when a woman uses too much mascara — her eyelashes all stick together and smear black with each blink. Nothing about that look is attractive. Use good quality mascara that dries quickly and does not smudge. After applying, use an eyelash brush to remove any excess off of your lashes. Men love beautiful and expressive eyes, free of black clumps.
4. Too much glitter
If you are not a professional makeup artist, it is probably best to stick to the matte shadows. They adhere better and are less likely to concentrate in the crease of your eyelid.
5. Yellow teeth and bad breath
Yellow teeth and bad breath are not attractive to anyone. If you struggle in this area, you should realize that the source of the problem is probably found in poor hygiene. Or maybe you need to cut back on the coffee, black tea or red wine, or lose the cigarettes. Whatever it is, address the source of your problem, and try adding whitening toothpaste and dental floss to brighten your smile. Lozenges or sugar-free breath sprays also help a lot.
6. Lack of body care
Poorly manicured nails, hairy legs and unshaven armpits are major turn-offs for men. Poor personal hygiene cannot be hidden by makeup and nice clothes.
7. Dry or oily skin
Yes, men notice. The sight of a dried heel, oily face or peeling skin is a warning to “back off.” Don’t expect to turn him on with cracked lips.
8. Primping in public
Men are not interested in knowing your tricks to become more attractive. Put on your makeup at home and don’t fuss over it in public.
9. Dark lips
Lipstick is a great tool to make your lips more beautiful and defined. But beware, if misused, the lip liner pencil can become your enemy. When going out for dinner, use a lipstick and liner close to the color of your lips. Dark lipstick colors have the awful tendency to smudge onto your teeth while you are talking or eating — not a pleasant sight for those who are watching. Also, remember that dark lip liner paired with lighter lipstick leaves an aged appearance.
10. Perfume overload
Excesses are always a bad idea. Remember, the more expensive the perfume, the less you should use. The cheaper the perfume, the less you should use. So try to put a drop only in certain points such as the neck, behind the ears and wrists. A little bit of a good perfume is plenty.
Fraudsters operating my account in my name, says Ag Head of Service
The Acting Head of Federal Civil Service of the Federation (AHCSoF) Mrs. Winifred Ekanem Oyo-Ita has raised alarm over a false Facebook account opened in her name by fraudsters to defraud unsuspecting members of the public.
She denied there was any job vacancy in her office as claimed by the false account.
According to a statement by the spokesman of the Office of the Head of the Civil Service of the Federation (OHCSF) Haruna R. Imrana, the public should disregard the account to avoid falling victims of fraudsters.
“The attention of the Office of the Head of Civil Service has been drawn to the false face book account created by some fraudulent individuals in the name of the Acting Head of the Federal Civil Service of the Federation, Mrs Winifred Ekanem Oyo-Ita.
“The false account purportedly carried advertisements for vacancies in the Office of the Head of Civil Service of the Federation. The general Public is hereby warned that the so called Facebook account is false and dubious.
“The Acting Head of the Civil Service has no such account more so the office of the Head of service does not advertise vacancies for employment in the offices as dubiously stated in the page.
“The Account is a scam created by fraudsters aimed at misleading and duping innocent job seeking public. The public is therefore warned to disregard the Facebook account and any information it may carry”, the statement said.
It further urged the public to desist from any form of dialogue on the account as it is fictitious, fraudulent and that the AHCSoF has disassociated herself with the said Facebook account.
Pastor Canceled wedding because groom refused to take of his shoes.
What was planned as a day of joyful union between a couple turned awry last weekend as the Pastor of a fast growing miracle church in Benin City, Edo State capital, refused to wed a couple following the refusal of the groom to pull his Italian designer shoes before entry into the church.
Worshipers, friends, family members and well-wishers who stormed the church were disappointed as the groom, who claimed he bought his designer shoes for N50,000, was adamant as he shunned pleas from his bride to comply with the rules of the church…
According to a source in the know, the church is reputed for miracles which have led to the influx of new converts from residents in the vicinity. It was learnt that the groom’s family who was expected to prevail on the groom shunned all effort to ensure that the wedding took place.
Meanwhile, as the drama raged, guests and well-wishers who were seated under the canopies for reception at the same venue were lavishly entertained by hired caterers as the confusion between the spiritual leader (Pastor) and the couple went on in church.
The beautiful bride who refused to be consoled over the incident wept profusely before church members, and the groom soon followed as tears freely ran down his cheeks.
Here’s what a senior pastor in the church said about the aborted marriage:
Here’s what a senior pastor in the church said about the aborted marriage:
“It is quite unfortunate that the groom is adamant. We expected that the bride who is our member must have educated him enough. It is not new among our members. Politicians, business moguls who often visit comply with our ways of worship and I must say that what we do here is divine and biblical
Lol. enyan Champions Get Tired Of Winning Titles And Challenge Chelsea | Photo
Gor Mahia fans have challenged struggling Premier League champions, Chelsea FC to a match after their side won the Kenyan Premier League unbeaten with a record points haul and so high is confidence among the fans they fancy their chances against Chelsea FC. Chelsea is currently 15th in the Premier League standings with just 11 points after 11 games and have lost six games but surely it’s not that bad? Lol. I’m still a Chelsea fan …for now! :-)
Monday 2 November 2015
The 6 Most Disgusting Diets Ever Invented
The women who have tried these bizarre diets claim they’ve found a solution to losing weight without dieting or exercise. But, can you stomach these extreme dieting approaches, and do any of them last long term?
THE FEEDING TUBE DIET
Feeding tubes were once considered a hospital-only staple. A long, thin tube is placed in your nose, ported to your stomach, and then hooked up to a small pump that provides a continuous drip of protein-fat liquid. Who wouldn’t lose weight? That said, this should not be considered a “diet.” Complications can include dehydration, constipation, erosions and kidneys stones. Once the feeding tube is removed after 10 days, experts say you can expect to gain all the weight back.
Feeding tubes were once considered a hospital-only staple. A long, thin tube is placed in your nose, ported to your stomach, and then hooked up to a small pump that provides a continuous drip of protein-fat liquid. Who wouldn’t lose weight? That said, this should not be considered a “diet.” Complications can include dehydration, constipation, erosions and kidneys stones. Once the feeding tube is removed after 10 days, experts say you can expect to gain all the weight back.
BODY WRAPS
No, this isn’t a new Halloween gimmick or a fancy new spa treatment. Women actually pay to have themselves wrapped from head to toe like a mummy for an hour or two. Once unwrapped, they mysteriously lost inches off their bodies– only to gain it back afterwards. This was due to the “Spanx” effect, where one appears smaller due to the constriction but hasn’t actually lost any physical weight.
No, this isn’t a new Halloween gimmick or a fancy new spa treatment. Women actually pay to have themselves wrapped from head to toe like a mummy for an hour or two. Once unwrapped, they mysteriously lost inches off their bodies– only to gain it back afterwards. This was due to the “Spanx” effect, where one appears smaller due to the constriction but hasn’t actually lost any physical weight.
As one woman from Redwood City, CA learned, “I followed the aftercare instructions and measured myself over the course of the next few days, only to find that my measurements went back to exactly what they were before the wrap. I would consider this a total waste of money.”
EAR STAPLING / EAR ACUPUNCTURE
While having elective surgery to pin back your ears may give you a thinner looking face, that isn’t what we’re talking about here. In this case, surgical staples are placed in the inner cartilage of your ear for several weeks. Considered by many extreme dieters as a type of “ear acupuncture,” the staples supposedly suppress appetite. This controversial dieting method has no evidence to support its claims, but about 20% of people who have it done do contract an infection.
While having elective surgery to pin back your ears may give you a thinner looking face, that isn’t what we’re talking about here. In this case, surgical staples are placed in the inner cartilage of your ear for several weeks. Considered by many extreme dieters as a type of “ear acupuncture,” the staples supposedly suppress appetite. This controversial dieting method has no evidence to support its claims, but about 20% of people who have it done do contract an infection.
THE TAPEWORM DIET
If you’re reading this while eating, you may want to put down your lunch.
If you’re reading this while eating, you may want to put down your lunch.
By far the most Fear Factor-inspired diet on this list is the tapeworm diet. Tapeworms are parasites that stay alive after you swallow them, feeding off food in your digestive tract so your body doesn’t consume calories from food you’ve swallowed. It’s not just extreme, it’s incredibly unhealthy. The worms swallow everything, including minerals and vitamins your body needs to survive. Oh, and you have worms living in your intestines. They’re incredibly difficult to get out once inside, often times requiring medical intervention.
TONGUE PATCH SURGERY
Along the same thinking as ear stapling, except a “patch” is surgically attached to your tongue, forcing you to consume a liquid-only diet. No chewing or swallowing for you. Besides the threat of choking, you also risk infection. As one doctor said, “”I’d say the tongue patch is a daily reminder of how just because your physician has an MD behind their name, it doesn’t mean they’re bright.”
Along the same thinking as ear stapling, except a “patch” is surgically attached to your tongue, forcing you to consume a liquid-only diet. No chewing or swallowing for you. Besides the threat of choking, you also risk infection. As one doctor said, “”I’d say the tongue patch is a daily reminder of how just because your physician has an MD behind their name, it doesn’t mean they’re bright.”
THE BEST DIET OF ALL
To be clear, there are many dietary supplements on the market that have proven beneficial, you just need to be smart when selecting them. Likewise, experts still agree that following a sensible eating plan, limit processed foods, and eating more fruits and vegetables is the best way to lose weight and keep it off. In combination with limiting your calorie intake, be sure to get at least an hour of exercise every day. Once at a stable weight, you can maintain this with 30 minutes of exercise daily. While following a clean nutrition plan and working up a daily sweat isn’t the cure all for everyone, it is the healthiest place to start. Consult with your doctor before undergoing any change to your diet or exercise plan.
To be clear, there are many dietary supplements on the market that have proven beneficial, you just need to be smart when selecting them. Likewise, experts still agree that following a sensible eating plan, limit processed foods, and eating more fruits and vegetables is the best way to lose weight and keep it off. In combination with limiting your calorie intake, be sure to get at least an hour of exercise every day. Once at a stable weight, you can maintain this with 30 minutes of exercise daily. While following a clean nutrition plan and working up a daily sweat isn’t the cure all for everyone, it is the healthiest place to start. Consult with your doctor before undergoing any change to your diet or exercise plan.
Watch : What the heck is KEVIN HART doing in this Video!!!...Lol
Sunday 1 November 2015
Meet Tanzania’s First Female Vice President
Samia Suluhu Hassan, 55, was announced Vice President of Tanzania in the 2015 General Elections, alongside Tanzania’s ruling party candidate John Magufuli. Suluhu is married to Hafidh Ameir and they have four children. The National Electoral Commission announced on Thursday, October 29, that Magufuli won the presidential election after the opposition challenged the tallying process and demanded a recount.
Graphic photos: Soldier pictured stabbing man to death in front of a crowd
A soldier stamped on the lifeless body, which was then dragged nearly un clad
The Army effectively disappeared during nine months of Seleka rule.She told the gathering at a training ground in the capital Bangui: ‘Within a month, I would like to fully secure the greater part of the country and I aim to stick to my word.’
Seleka disbanded after Samba-Panza’s inauguration last month and is deeply resented by the Christian majority after months of lootings and killings.
Peter Bouckaert, emergencies director at Human Rights Watch in Bangui, tweeted that the corpse of the lynched man had been burned.
He posted a photograph showing a man holding up a severed limb next to a bonfire, as an armed French soldier gestured in the background.
Source: UK Daily Mail
He posted a photograph showing a man holding up a severed limb next to a bonfire, as an armed French soldier gestured in the background.
Source: UK Daily Mail
Woman Steals Police Car, Crashes Into Another Police Cruiser
A woman is in the hospital after she hopped into a police car and crashed it into another police cruiser, injuring a police officer.
A City of Miami Police officer was trying to get the woman off the roof of a house when she jumped off and got into his car. She smashed the car head-on into another police cruiser, which was called to assist in the incident. A man who chose to remain anonymous saw the entire ordeal as it occurred. “I was in the sidewalk when I see the lady actually jumps into the police vehicle, and the cop actually tried to drag her out,” he said. “By the time she tried, she kinda just booked it. Stepped on it, and the other cop was turning in trying to block her, and she just head-on collision right into him, and she got out of the car and just ran right down.”
Audio has been released from when the police officer arrived on the scene and noticed the woman on the roof. “She just fell off the roof, but I can’t get in there,” he said, “so I don’t know if she’s hurt or not.” The woman was later found bleeding at a nearby store. 7Skyforce HD flew over the scene at Northwest 28th Avenue and Eighth Street, where the two police cruisers could be seen with serious front-end damage. “The officer that was coming to assist the officer to try and find the woman did not know that she had taken the vehicle, so he was slowing down, but she was accelerating,” said Miami Police spokesperson Frederica Burden.
One officer was transported to Jackson Memorial Hospital, while the other was treated on the scene. Both officers are believed to be OK. Police believe the incident could have been much worse. “She could have gotten off of the street, into the busy intersection, and it could have been multiple injuries, so we’re fortunate,” said Burden. “It is amazing. Both vehicles are probably totaled, but yes, the officer is OK. He was treated and possibly has gone home by now.”
White Couple MOCKED!!! nigerians in their HALLOWEEN Costume!!!
All in the name of Halloween costume… don’t get it twisted this couple are mocking Nigerians with the slave trade era when they paraded blacks – both men and women – without clothes. Not nice at all!
7 ways to emotionaly satisfy a woman
Dear men, believe us when we tell you, it is no rocket science to keep your lady emotionally happy. Use your brain tool well to gather cues from what your woman wants of you. There will be times when she would be very demanding or short-tempered, but then there might be days when she would shower all her love and attention on you. So, here is a plan outlined for you so that she knows you are there with her at every step, literally.
1. Heart-to-heart conversations
There will be times when she will drop hints on the ‘need to talk’. You have to keep your eyes open and break the ice by intiating conversation. Leave behind the four walls and go out to grab a cup of coffee or go for a morning/evening walk and speak to her. Find out about her day, talk to her about things that make her happy, take her to places where she feels at peace. All these things will make her open her heart out to you. Remember, communication is the most important part of any couple’s relationship.
There will be times when she will drop hints on the ‘need to talk’. You have to keep your eyes open and break the ice by intiating conversation. Leave behind the four walls and go out to grab a cup of coffee or go for a morning/evening walk and speak to her. Find out about her day, talk to her about things that make her happy, take her to places where she feels at peace. All these things will make her open her heart out to you. Remember, communication is the most important part of any couple’s relationship.
2. Domestic support
Share the responsibilities of running the household. Whether your partner is a working professional or a homemaker, she still needs your involvement at home. In fact, your involvement must increase manifolds if you have kids. Co-parenting will be comforting because she will not be the only one running around kids all the time. Your involvement at home will comfort her and will keep her emotionally happy.
Share the responsibilities of running the household. Whether your partner is a working professional or a homemaker, she still needs your involvement at home. In fact, your involvement must increase manifolds if you have kids. Co-parenting will be comforting because she will not be the only one running around kids all the time. Your involvement at home will comfort her and will keep her emotionally happy.
3. Make love, not s*x
Well, physical intimacy is not limited to just one goal! Snuggle up to her, pour in your emotions when you are with her, indulge in some foreplay, and put some thought into playing some fun bedroom games. This will help you cut down the monotony that might be crawling into your bedroom act. And, do not doze off after making love. According to a study in s*xual behaviour at Albright College, Pennsylvania, post-coital cuddle tops a woman’s list of to-do because at that moment she tends to become more emotional.
Well, physical intimacy is not limited to just one goal! Snuggle up to her, pour in your emotions when you are with her, indulge in some foreplay, and put some thought into playing some fun bedroom games. This will help you cut down the monotony that might be crawling into your bedroom act. And, do not doze off after making love. According to a study in s*xual behaviour at Albright College, Pennsylvania, post-coital cuddle tops a woman’s list of to-do because at that moment she tends to become more emotional.
4. Travel together
Make the most of the times you can take off from work and family, and spend time with each other. Do not starve each other of attention. There can be no better way to shower your love and attention on her than while vacationing together. Surprise her with a weekend getaway (if you don’t have much time in hand) or plan a week-long vacation together. Travel the roads of your relationship together.
Make the most of the times you can take off from work and family, and spend time with each other. Do not starve each other of attention. There can be no better way to shower your love and attention on her than while vacationing together. Surprise her with a weekend getaway (if you don’t have much time in hand) or plan a week-long vacation together. Travel the roads of your relationship together.
5. Downplay ogling
If you are out with her make sure all your attention is on her. If there is a pretty woman who crosses your line of vision, it is best not to ogle. Why on earth would you spoil the evening for a glimpse of a stranger. Try to put yourself in her shoes; how would you react if she was the one staring at some other man? Ouch! Did we hear your heart sink at this very thought? Let us keep things simple, folks. You have got a beautiful woman by your side, treasure her.
If you are out with her make sure all your attention is on her. If there is a pretty woman who crosses your line of vision, it is best not to ogle. Why on earth would you spoil the evening for a glimpse of a stranger. Try to put yourself in her shoes; how would you react if she was the one staring at some other man? Ouch! Did we hear your heart sink at this very thought? Let us keep things simple, folks. You have got a beautiful woman by your side, treasure her.
6. Admire her
Admiration is one thing that makes a woman feel happy and loved. Whether she is 25 or 50, she will always love compliments, especially when they come from you. So, admire your woman. Compliment her on her looks, her dressing style, her smile, her eyes and everything else. Go beyond the physical attributes as well. Admire her for how she takes care of you and your family, how perfect she is for you, how you love the way she looks at you and handles every problem that arises. All these things are bound to make your lady feel loved and happy.
Admiration is one thing that makes a woman feel happy and loved. Whether she is 25 or 50, she will always love compliments, especially when they come from you. So, admire your woman. Compliment her on her looks, her dressing style, her smile, her eyes and everything else. Go beyond the physical attributes as well. Admire her for how she takes care of you and your family, how perfect she is for you, how you love the way she looks at you and handles every problem that arises. All these things are bound to make your lady feel loved and happy.
7. Make her laugh
A woman wants to be with a man who can make her laugh. Sense of humour is an attractive quality in men, and we all know that women really dig that. So, tickle her funny bone and she is all yours! Your woman wants you to uplift her spirits when she is not feeling too well.
A woman wants to be with a man who can make her laugh. Sense of humour is an attractive quality in men, and we all know that women really dig that. So, tickle her funny bone and she is all yours! Your woman wants you to uplift her spirits when she is not feeling too well.
The 3 words that are most important in a marriage
The people who believe that are almost always DIVORCED!
The truth is, a healthy marriage requires A LOT of grace. Some couples get stuck in a stagnant rut because one or both spouses dig in their heels and refuse to admit fault for fear of looking weak or giving “power” to the other spouse. Neither spouse is willing to swallow their pride and go first. This creates a toxic cycle where nobody wins.
When you hold a grudge, you both lose. When you choose to forgive, you both win!
Before I get to the “Nine most important words in a marriage” let me share briefly on how NOT to apologize…
“I’m sorry if I hurt your feelings”
This isn’t a real apology. It’s the kind of “apology” that will just make your spouse want to punch you in the nose. It’s a passive aggressive way of saying, “You were being too sensitive.”
“I’m sorry for whatever I did”
Anytime the word “whatever” is used in the apology, it loses authenticity. A real apology is specific and heartfelt, not vague and impersonal.
“I’m sorry, but I wasn’t the only one at fault.”
You probably weren’t the only one at fault, but your apology loses sincerity when you start trying to assign blame to your spouse at the same time. They have to do that on their own. If there’s ever a “but” in your apology, it isn’t a real apology.
Now, for a better way to apologize, here are the 9 of the most important words in a marriage…
“I was wrong. I am sorry. Please forgive me.”
“I was wrong. I am sorry. Please forgive me.”
These simple words can preserve trust in your marriage, and once you lose trust, you risk losing everything. Always be quick to say them when you’ve blown it! Here’s how…
There are 3 key components to a true apology. I’ll give an example below of how this kind of apology can look in a marriage.
1. Confessing guilt
(I was wrong.)
This needs to be specific and heartfelt, not forced or coerced. Reveal the details of what you did and the motives behind them (even if it isn’t pretty.
2. Admitting remorse
(I am sorry.)
This can’t just be remorse that you got caught. It has to come from a place of reflection and genuine concern for the damage you caused.
3. Asking for grace
. (Please forgive me.)
This requires swallowing your pride and putting the power in your spouse’s hands. It’s asking the opportunity to rebuild what you have broken by your words and/or actions and it’s asking them to give up the right to punish and to focus instead on healing and rebuilding trust.
Here’s an example…
“I know that I hurt you when I hid that purchase I made from you. I chose to value something I wanted to buy more than I valued your feelings and your trust in me. I was wrong. I don’t have an excuse other than I was being selfish and reckless. I am sorry. I want to make this right. I want you to be able to trust me fully and completely and I know I wounded your trust in me. Please tell I can to to start rebuilding your trust. I love you and I want to do everything in my power to protect our marriage. Please forgive me.”
If you’re on the receiving end of the apology, accept it with grace and move forward to rebuild trust.
Let grace flow freely in your marriage. Be quick to forgive and to seek forgiveness. Don’t keep score and don’t hold grudges! Your marriage will thrive when you embrace grace.